Been working a lot. I was however off last two weeks from doing overtime. So just the normal 40hrs made up from long shift in short days. So frustrated with the man not doing anything around the house. He sighs and gets irritated about things that he isn't going to do himself. Just delegate to others. I get more resentful as time goes on. He says he has to get a PT job so that he can help when I'm in the program and can't work the OT, but he hasn't put in applications, or networked in the slightest. He's home so much and doesn't do dishes when they're right in the sink, or laundry consistently, he doesn't grocery shop, or vacuum or do anything than sit on the chair and watch YouTube. Its ridiculous. I am going on year two of working 20hrs of OT weekly. I understand his needing to fish for finding spots to take people on for trip, but it burns up gas and its not cheap for a boat to burn gas and be filled up without customers.
I had 0 desire to do anything intimate with him. None. If I was a stay at home parent the house would be clean and organized and dinner would be made. I was a stay at home mom, and while it wasn't spic and span all the time, I was in school and had two small children. However, laundry was always done and dinner made. We lived in a tiny apt and so it was cluttered but clean. Hes home all the time, kids are at school all day. He could easily knock out a cleaning project daily. ONE PER DAY. I was off for four days and I got done all kinds of deep cleaning (think behind the fridge, deep cleaning carpets in amelias room, cobweb removal, all laundry that was piling up, deep cleaning kitchen, sheets, bathrooms, etc.) He just sat there the entire time. He moved the fridge out for me. THANKS honey. If i see someone cleaning, i find something to clean also.
3:31 pm - Saturday, Jan. 08, 2022
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